Without a doubt the saddest American President when he took the oath of office was Franklin Pierce. He, his wife, Jane Pierce, and his son Benjamin were traveling on a train near Andover, Massachusetts when the car they were traveling in derailed. Pierce and his wife received only slight injuries, but Benjamin was slain before the eyes of his horrified parents, crushed to death and nearly decapitated. He was eleven years old, the sole surviving child of the Pierces, their first son dying four days after birth and their second at the age of four. Both parents were sunk in a depression from which they never fully recovered. Mrs. Pierce wrote a letter to her departed son in which she lamented her shortcomings as a mother. It was two years before she could bring herself to go to Washington and take up the duties of First Lady, which she did with quiet dignity and to enormous public sympathy.
Pierce, as best he could, bottled up the endless grief he felt over the death of his son. He only referred to it publicly once, during his inaugural address:
“You have summoned me in my weakness, you must sustain me by your strength.”
I thought I heard that former First Lady Barbara [Pierce] Bush was related to Pres. Pierce. Her granddaughter and daughter of former Pres. George W. Bush was named Barbara Pierce Bush after her. Sounds like they wouldn’t be direct descendants of Pres. Pierce unless he had another child after being elected.
The Pierces had no other children.
A quick Google search indicates that Mrs. Bush is a descendant of an uncle of President Pierce.
“You have summoned me in my weakness, you must sustain me by your strength.” Amazing Faith.
Mr. McClarey, I don’t remember if you have ever posted about the autobiography of Calvin Coolidge, but this post is reminiscent of the autobiography’s tragic closing pages of Chapter 5, where Coolidge describes losing his beloved sixteen year old son and his father within two years while he was in the White House. He ends the chapter with the line that has haunted me: “It costs a great deal to be president.”
I have not read his autobiography but I am aware of the tragic death of his son and I have written about it:
https://the-american-catholic.com/2013/02/18/mister-we-could-use-a-man-like-calvin-coolidge-again/
How dreadful it is for any parent to bury a child.