Forgiveness works.
Decades of pioneering work on the vast personal and social benefits of forgiveness — from reducing individuals’ anxiety and aggression to fostering better cross-cultural communication amid political conflict — have earned UW-Madison’s Robert Enright one of psychology’s rarest and highest lifetime achievement awards.
Enright’s scientific study of forgiveness has had a “game-changing impact on the field of psychology,” according to the American Psychological Foundation. The foundation, an arm of the American Psychological Association, awarded Enright the 2022 American Psychological Foundation Gold Medal Award for Impact in Psychology. The award has previously gone to giants in the field of psychology that include Evelyn Hooker, whose work prompted the removal of homosexuality from the industry manual of mental health disorders, and David Barlow, who developed new methods of treating anxiety that are now staples of mental health care around the world.
….yes, really, this guy is being recognized as revolutionary for applying some advice from a carpenter a few dozen centuries back.
All joking aside, I’m delighted to see this being recognized, and the guy seems very dedicated to actually helping rather than to getting attention.
Here’s a link to the foundation, specifically the page where they explain what they mean by forgiveness.
There’s also a forgiveness pledge:
The International Forgiveness Institute (IFI) is a world-wide, not-for-profit organization dedicated to helping people gain knowledge about forgiveness and to use that knowledge for personal, group, and societal renewal.
We believe that forgiveness is a choice. If you have been deeply hurt by another, you can choose to forgive rather than hold on to debilitating anger and resentment. In doing so, an amazing transformation begins. The black clouds of anxiety and depression give way to enhanced self-esteem and genuine feelings of hopefulness. When you forgive, you may benefit the person you forgive. By liberating yourself from the pain and sorrow, you can reclaim your life and find the peace that your anger had stolen.
We are convinced that anyone–individuals, families, communities, even governments–can experience the extraordinary benefits of forgiveness. By learning to forgive and committing to live the forgiving life, we can all help restore healthy emotions, rebuild relationships and establish more peaceful communities around the world. Become a “Peace Builder” now; sign the Forgiveness Pledge.
By signing this Forgiveness Pledge, I affirm that:
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Forgiveness is an important part of my life.
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I will do my best to forgive people from my family of origin.
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I will be a conduit of forgiveness in my family.
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I will forgive in the workplace and do my best to create a forgiving atmosphere.
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I will encourage forgiveness in my place of worship so that it is a forgiving community.
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I will do my best to plant and promote forgiveness in my wider community.
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I commit to living the forgiving life.
Well, it’s a start!
Whatever gets people on the train, I guess. I do enjoy how Science™️ keeps proving God right, though.
Same– once folks get a foot on the path, they’re much more likely to walk it.
A priest, who has had many healings, during his seminar on the said forgiveness must come before healing.
A priest, who has had many healings, during his seminar on the subject said forgiveness must come before healing.