As far as I can tell, the latest translation of the Paedagogus or Instructor is the 19th century Ante-Nicene Fathers, online here. This does not contain these words.
Lists of quotes designed to demonise always omit context, and often vary in wording and attribution. Our quote is not different in this respect. Some suggest that it comes from the Stromateis or Miscellanies book 3, but it does not. It appears in somewhat varying forms around the web, such as “every woman should be filled with shame by the thought that she is a woman”. A hate-article, “20 disgustingly misogynist quotes from religious leaders” – none of them Muslim, for some reason – at Salon, by a certain Valerie Tarico, Oct 15, 2014, (online here) gives it in this version, which is sometimes combined with the other:
[For women] the very consciousness of their own nature must evoke feelings of shame. —Saint Clement of Alexandria, Christian theologian (c150-215) Pedagogues II, 33, 2.
There are a number of books from India which reference Bertrand Russell as a source, such as this one. But that book only references his smug tract in favour of adultery, Marriage and Morality (1929) – one feels for his poor abused wife – which does not contain any reference to Clement of Alexandria.
From Roger Pearce, a nice chunk of research into a supposed quote.
Worth reading the whole thing just for the actual descriptions of the chain of sources!
Oh, he did find something, eventually, that was a little bit similar. Boiled down, being drunk is nasty.
So are they trying to cancel St Clement now? Crikey. Whether it was said or not, someone, somewhere (who was Christian and/or Catholic) probably said something like that at sometime in the past. Lets be honest. It’s called an opinion. And as you say, they’re expressed in the social, cultural context of a particular time, and should be understood as such. We all have opinions. We’ve all “offended” someone with our opinions!
But, At the end of the day, our Faith as passed down by Christ through his Apostles to us does not teach, represent or encourage the inferiority or humiliation of any gender, race, social class or persons. We are all sons and daughters made by our God in His own image and likeness- endowed with an Eternal Soul. But can’t say the same of any other other religion or non-religion. Islam regards women as inferior objects, Hinduism looks down at the lower casts, Buddhism claims you’ll come back a cockroach if you are nasty in this life. And Atheism, well, it treats everyone with contempt. So Christianity is doing ok in comparison.
From The Privilege of Being a Woman (2002) by Alice Von Hildebrand
Fulton Sheen stated that millions hate Holy Mother the Church but only a few hundred actually know anything about Her.